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61. Treat Yourself

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ACTION CARD: Indulge! You deserve it. 

Treating ourselves is not only a delightful indulgence, but it also holds the power to heal our inner child and nurture our overall well-being. In the card "Treat Yourself," the image of a tempting treat reminds us of the importance of self-care and the joy that can be found in simple pleasures.

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As adults, we often get caught up in the responsibilities and demands of everyday life, forgetting to prioritize our own needs and desires. Our inner child, who is still within us, longs for moments of playfulness, spontaneity, and pleasure. When we treat ourselves, we are not only satisfying our physical cravings but also nourishing our inner child's need for love, care, and joy. 

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Treating ourselves can take many forms. It could be indulging in a favorite dessert, taking a bubble bath, going for a leisurely walk in nature, or simply spending quality time engaging in activities that bring us happiness. By consciously setting aside time to prioritize our well-being, we send a powerful message to our inner child that they are valued, deserving, and worthy of love and joy.

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When we deny ourselves treats and neglect self-care, we inadvertently feed into the wounds and limitations of our inner child. By denying ourselves the experiences of joy and pleasure, we reinforce the belief that we are not important enough to be happy. This can create a sense of unworthiness and diminish our self-esteem.

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On the other hand, when we treat ourselves, we are actively affirming our self-worth and showing ourselves that we deserve to experience joy and pleasure. This act of self-love can help heal the wounds of our inner child, soothing any feelings of neglect or unworthiness that may still linger within us.

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Moreover, treating ourselves not only benefits our inner child but also enhances our overall well-being. Taking regular breaks to engage in activities that bring us joy and relaxation can reduce stress, boost our mood, and increase our overall happiness and contentment. It allows us to recharge, rejuvenate, and show up in the world as our best selves.

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So, let the image of this tasty treat serve as a reminder to prioritize self-care, indulge in moments of pleasure, and nurture our inner child. By doing so, we can heal old wounds, strengthen our self-worth, and live a more fulfilling and balanced life. Remember, treating yourself is not a luxury but a vital component of self-love and self-care.  
 

Affirmations:

“ I embrace and value my own happiness and well-being.”

“I deserve moments of joy and self-care.”

“I am worthy of treating myself with kindness and compassion.”

“Taking care of myself is an act of love and self-respect.”

“I give myself permission to indulge in moments of pleasure and relaxation.”

Journal Prompts:

-Reflect on a recent moment of self-care that brought you joy. How did it make you feel, and why was it important to you?

 

-What are some activities or experiences that make you feel truly pampered and cherished? How can you incorporate more of them into your life?

 

-How do you currently prioritize self-care and treat yourself? Are there any adjustments or additions you would like to make?

 

-Explore any beliefs or thoughts that may be holding you back from fully embracing self-care and treating yourself. How can you challenge and reframe these beliefs?

 

-Imagine a perfect day of indulgence and self-care. Describe it in detail, including the activities, environment, and feelings associated with it. How can you bring elements of this day into your everyday life?

 

Remember, these affirmations and journal prompts are just a starting point. Feel free to adapt them to your personal preferences and needs. Enjoy the journey of self-discovery and self-care!

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